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The Shocking Reason Why You Should Avoid Relationships
What Happens When You Prioritise Yourself First? The Answer Might Surprise You
Hello there, wonderful readers! I want to share a trip I’ve been on today that is about the importance of loving yourself before you ever consider being involved in a relationship. And what’s this? I’m expressing this from the viewpoint of an individual who has never been in a committed relationship. Intrigued? Let’s start now!
Even when we haven’t personally experienced something, life has a weird way of teaching us valuable lessons. I haven’t ever been in a relationship, although that doesn’t mean I’ve never experienced the emotional rollercoaster that is love. I’ve gained an understanding of the complications that might occur when you don’t have self-love at your core through family, close friends, and even my own observations.
Imagine for a second the following:
Undoubtedly, the prospect of being involved in a relationship is appealing. However, it’s also simple to be sucked into the fantasy, forget whom you are, and allow other people’s happiness determine your own. I’ve witnessed it happen, and it’s these cautionary tales which have inspired me to put my self-love first.
