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I’ve had my fair share of experiences where I have felt hurt and frustrated by the actions of some men. It can be disheartening when we encounter individuals who exhibit insensitivity or disrespect. However, it’s important to remember that generalising all men based on these negative experiences isn’t fair or accurate.
Just as women are diverse in their thoughts and behaviors, so are men.
When we dismiss a whole gender as “trash,” we fail to recognise the many people who put out great effort to uphold dignity and care for others.
I’ve known men who make great fathers, partners, and caring friends. It is unfair and unhelpful to reduce someone to a negative stereotype. It’s normal to react defensive when someone feels like they are under attack merely for being a certain gender.
We should celebrate the wonderful aspects of masculinity in the same way that we do the positive aspects of femininity.
Men should be encouraged to communicate their feelings, ask for help when they need it, and actively take part in removing gender stereotypes. Giving them an insulting label like “trash” only hinders the progress.
We must acknowledge and value the many ways that males make great contributions to our world. As dads…
